Growing

As we grow older, we have less time for yourselves, as we grow so does our responsibility, responsibility not for yourselves but for the people important to us. Yes we work to feed ourselves to pamper ourselves, but when you are married and your parents are retired, you work because you have to support the people around you. As we grow we learn that things don’t come easy, when i say things i don’t mean just money alone, relationships etc,etc…

As we grow, we learn that not everybody we meet in our life will stay with us til the end, Okay.. maybe by saying ‘Our’ is too selfish, how about each other? Friends come and go is true, we have all heard it right? but have you ever wondered, why do they go? is it because you guys stopped talking? drifted away? quarreled? Well like i always say, it takes two hands to clap. if one person is putting effort to keep the relationship alive, at the end of the day the person will just get tired and give up, when this happens can you say, i don’t know what happen?  In everything we do, it really takes two hands to clap.

I’ve been ask, why did i stop talking to one of my friends, i just said we just stopped. The reply i got was ‘ Friends don’t just stop talking, some more close friends’. Well like i said earlier, sometimes its really tiring to maintain a friendship, if only one person is doing the conversation and meetings. But there is something i strongly believe, No matter how long we don’t talk, we will still be friends, friends don’t have to be talking constantly or daily. You can try by not talking to anyone, by text. etc etc. Your true friends will be those that will suddenly text you and ask how you are. I tried it before, about 2 weeks later a few of my friend texted me and asked what happen to me, some just texted me to ask me out since we haven’t met for a long time. This goes to show, friends are people that you don’t have to meet or talk to daily. If they are your friends, true friends. No matter what how long it is they will still be there. Its like time doesn’t affect the relationship between friends, instead it strengthens them, knowing that there is someone out there you can rely on for help.

Back to what i wanted to say, as we grow the time for ourselves becomes less and less, we learn what is important and what is not, who is worth the effort and who isn’t. We have too many commitments and responsibility, that having free time is a luxury, this luxury can only be given to those who are worth it.

(One day, we will all understand why there are some people who leaves, not because they are bad for us, instead everyone that you meet is good, why?? Everybody you meet will help mold you to become a better person, Stronger, Wiser, Caring, Loving. You meet a backstabber, they made you stronger cause you live through it, You had a relationship but it didn’t last. At least you know there is someone who love you truly once and so did you. You knew how to love.

Everybody is there for a reason, you might not know why now, One day in the near future we will look back and say ‘Hey, I’ve been through this before. ” One of my favorite quote is “Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.” Better to learn it now, then later, when your decisions have a bigger impact.)

Thanks for reading, though i will never know who actually reads it, but i hope it helps you have a more positive look into life after reading it.